Women have been taught since childhood to believe that becoming a man’s “girlfriend” and being exclusive naturally leads to a long-term, committed relationship. The truth is, the moment a woman makes a man the center of her world is the moment he starts to feel less romantic about you.
This is because as soon as the man senses that you’ve devoted yourself to him exclusively before he’s given you the commitment you want, he starts to think less of you.
not trying to acquire a relationship or boyfriend as if they were trying to acquire a new handbag or pair of heels.
If you want a great relationship, then focus on having a great relationship.
You just flirt and let men come up and talk to you and then “date” yourself.